Make Contact with My Loved One?
I have found that simply asking
God for my loved one's presence, lighting a candle and reading a little bit
of Scripture opens me up to contact. The Psalms are especially helpful. Also soaking in some soothing bath oils
or salts before initiating contact also helps relax you. Soft new-age music,
without words, is also recommended. And simply relax in the silence and wait
for your loved one's presence.
At other times, I suggest to simply talk to your loved one out loud - as
though he/she were there. Eventually, you will experience contact.
Ask what your loved one is doing
in Heaven - and ask them to give you impressions of it. Sit back quietly and
allow these impressions to "wash over you." You might also ask
them to take you on a "tour" of where they are - either during
your meditation or during your dreams.
Another thing that Jim taught me
- and just recently, I have begin to share this with others and they are
saying it works for them too! So here goes: Just raise your arms with your palms either
upward or outward and speak to your loved one. You may be surprised at what
you get in your arms!
Most of all, be patient. It is very difficult to achieve this type of
communication if you are not relaxed and receptive. And once you have
experienced contact, do not doubt that it happened - for doubt leads to
despair and depression.
in the Lord, do good...and He shall give thee the desires of your heart.
first the kingdom of God and His righteousness,
and all these things shall be added unto you.
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