Beatitudes for Those
 Who Comfort
by: Jackie Deems
Reprinted with permission from Burlington Bereavement Resource Council,
 Perspectives, Volume 3 No. 4, December 1990

Blessed are those who do not use tears to measure the true feelings of the bereaved. 

Blessed are those who do not always have a quick "comforting" answer.

Blessed are those who do not make judgments on the bereaved's closeness to God by their reaction to the loss of their loved one.

Blessed are those who hear with their hearts and not with their minds.

Blessed are those who allow the bereaved enough time to heal.

Blessed are those who admit their uncomfortableness and put it aside to help the bereaved.

Blessed are those who do not give unwanted advice.

Blessed are those who continue to call, visit and reach out when the crowd has dwindled and the wounded are left standing alone.

Blessed are those who know the worth of each person as a unique individual and do not pretend that they can be replaced or forgotten.

Blessed are those who realize the fragility of bereavement and handle it with an understanding shoulder and a loving heart.


 


 



Music: The Meadow,
1999 Bruce DeBoer