Tina's brother, Lucas
Tina at 18 at Myrtle Beach
Tina holding her nephew Zachary Lawson March 26, 2003
Tina
Michelle Lawson Hutchens, her smile lit up a room. Her laughter and
happiness I lived for. Words can’t describe the love between her
and her family and friends. When you’d see her come walking toward
you, she’d fix her eyes upon your face with a smile so sweet and a
look of happiness to see you. Every time we would hug each other and
tell each other we loved each other. She was like that with her
friends and family.
Our
daughter Tina died in a manner that leaves those of us left behind
with a cry of agony in our hearts as the fragile thread of our faith
was dealt with so violently. Something with-in us died when we bore
the unbearable. She was the best of us and the strongest of us. Our
rational minds can never understand why this happened. Our lives
will never be the same again .She was the most loving and caring
person who would help anybody she could. She was working at her
first job at age 15 and bought her 1st car at age 16. She was a 2001
high school graduate. February 14, 2002 she got a job where I work
at. The job was a porter for the plant. She bought a brand-new 2002
Ford focus In April 2002.6 months later in October 2002 she got
married. In January she became a knitting operator like me. I helped
train her and we got to work and take our breaks together. February
2003 she turned 20 years old.
March
2003 she got laid off from work and I didn’t. We both cried like a
baby. She had been there for one year. She would have been working
that night she got killed if she hadn’t got laid off. Being kind
hearted as she was she took her friends mother Lisa shopping that
evening. On her way home she was hit head on by Mr. Sanchez and he
was a drunk driver. She had groceries in her cars trunk. She loved
helping people. Tina was the only daughter we had. We always did
things together as a family. She had so many plans. We were going to
have a yard sale. We were going camping at Myrtle Beach the 4th of
July. We hoped she’d get called back to work from her lay
off.
I have no
sisters and my mother died when I was 15.Tina was not only my
daughter but she was my friend. We always talked on the phone,
watched movies, went shopping, celebrated our birthdays, ate out
together, spent holidays together and planned to do things with each
other each week. My life since her death has been a nightmare. She
was my reason for living. I miss her so much. We loved her with all
our hearts. Before we would leave each other she would hug me and
tell me she loved me.
This time
we didn’t get to hug before she left us and no more hugs and no
more I love yous and no more kisses. Tina was a good girl. What
happened to her should not have happened. She didn’t drink or do
drugs. There was no other girl in the world like Tina. She was my
strength and my courage. When I walked beside of her I felt proud.
She was my life. I helped to look after her finances When I
suggested something to her she would she would listen. She’d buy
groceries for the hungry, buy toys at Christmas for children. Gave
money to friends who were poor. Drive people to places they needed
to go using her car. She had excellent credit. This world truly lost
a special someone the day she died.
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